Wednesday 19 August 2015

The eyes are the windows to the Soul...
As a past life regression therapist I know that and that's how I ask the client to identify the people while in the session, yet every time I encounter them myself, it takes me by surprise that how much we can know from the eyes!!!
I met a friend today and the eyes, they took me to 3 different life times.
Every person that crosses our path, no matter how short their role is, it is for sure for a reason, every dream, every desire, every fear, every event is designed to help us know ourselves better. Mindfulness is the only way, just observe and be aware or be willing to be aware, and every person, every event is there to help and support you on your path.
Just be willing to see yourself in everything and everyone around you.

Addiction & Self Sabotage ....Sahar Gharachorloo

Many people with addiction problem meet me and seek help, their families come and have so many complaints, they are in despair however not ready to see the pain of the person who is using the substance.
Addiction is usually a fusion problem, coming from self sabotage mixed with escapism and wanting to shut the reality that might be so painful that they decided to run away from. 
We need to be more kind and loving to them, alot of care and love is required, patience and understanding that when on substance they are not in a moral state of being and it's the pain and lack of deservability and self love that has pushed them there. 
Pranic psychotherapy can be helpful.
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Law Of Attraction Workshop ....Sahar Gharachorloo

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Conscious Parenting ....Sahar Gharachorloo

Our childhood plays a very important role not only in how our personality shapes but also in how we understand the world around us. We all feel we have had glorious childhood however this is a lie we so wish to tell ourselves and everyone around. As a child we want our parents to be our heros and we want to believe we have had a beautiful home which is true in a way, the truth about it is that our parents truly did the best they could to provide us with the best possible life they could and they behaved with us in the best possible way they could.
However our subconscious did not really perceive it that way.
I have had many cases where a child that was conceived, at 40 days or 3 months felt and knew that it was not wanted by the parents, or where the child sensed the helplessness of the mother and decided to protect the mother in the womb itself.
Inner child therapy is a beautiful therapy where we help the person to ho back and confront all those childhood traumas and release himself with those baggages he has been carrying.
Many fears and phobias shape up in early years of our life and this beautiful therapy helps us to let go off such issues.
My request to parents is to be more conscious of what they talk and how they react to their child and each other and to newly Wed couples please be sure of what you talk, how you interact with each other and what messages you transfer to your child.
‪#‎consciousparenting‬ ‪#‎innerchildtherapy‬ ‪#‎therapist‬ ‪#‎SaharGharachorloo‬‪#‎lifecoach‬

Law of Attraction , Faith , Surrender....Sahar Gharachorloo

I posted an article about law of attraction and a couple of people started challenging me about how law of attraction works and if I should prove it . I replied to a couple of them and ignored a couple but it was very interesting to read those comments and made me think.
I would like to share what came as an insight , maybe it would help many . 
I realized that most of us operate from challenge, we are continuously either proving our worth to ourselves or to the society and sometimes even to God / Universe.
So much so that we challenge the Universal laws such as karma, free will and Law of attraction.
That's exactly where we go wrong!!!
Universe / God has no ego, it's only love, it does not have to prove if it can deliver you what you want or not, it is waiting for you to drop your ego and ask with all your heart and have faith that you would get it when it is right for you.
We operate from ego and in the game of ego we get so lost that we start to challenge God /Universe too.
The formula to success is faith and surrender not doubt and challenge.
Does this make you think?
I think it does...
‪#‎lawofattraction‬ ‪#‎Surrender‬ ‪#‎Lifecoach‬ ‪#‎trainerSahar‬Gharachorloo
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be you ...Soul Naked !! Sahar Gharachorloo

To find yourself truly, you need to lose yourself completely !
How true !!! Unless you are ready to be completely vulnerable and soul naked you would not know who you truly are , we have too many selves created by our Ego to protect us but which one is true ?
You would only know if you lose yourself and let all masks fall .


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Ask & You Shall Receive ....Sahar Gharachorloo

When I was a child , I would make sure I am very attentive to everyone and everything around me , I never wanted to miss anything not because I had interest but because i did not want i should forget anything , I did not want i should miss on anything because that would mean I would have to ask if I need the information later on . Though this habit helped me in many ways but today I understand that a lot of my problems came from there too .
As a child I was afraid of asking ,I did not want that I should be called stupid , or absent minded but more than that perhaps it was being afraid of being rejected .
When I look back at life I realize there are very few times I ever asked for help ,or in fact I ever asked for anything . I would proudly say :" Even when I go to a temple or when I talk with God I never ask for myself.
What a stupid statement , though my ego still wants to believe I never asked because I was not selfish/self centered but the truth is I never asked because Ii was afraid of being rejected ,I never asked because I was not sure if I deserved it .
I am sure many of us have the same story .
Please Ask , Ask , Ask !!
If you need help at home or at work , please ask.
If you need money, please ask .
If you want something in life please ask .
If you want a loving partner, please ask .
If you want to be loved , please ask .
Ask and you Shall Receive!! It's that simple .
( From my Law Of Attraction Workshop)

InnerChild Therapy & Childhood Traumas....Sahar Gharachorloo



Our childhood plays a very important role not only in how our personality shapes but also in how we understand the world around us. We all feel we have had glorious childhood however this is a lie we so wish to tell ourselves and everyone around. As a child we want our parents to be our heros and we want to believe we have had a beautiful home which is true in a way, the truth about it is that our parents truly did the best they could to provide us with the best possible life they could and they behaved with us in the best possible way they could.
However our subconscious did not really perceive it that way.
I have had many cases where a child that was conceived, at 40 days or 3 months felt and knew that it was not wanted by the parents, or where the child sensed the helplessness of the mother and decided to protect the mother in the womb itself.
Inner child therapy is a beautiful therapy where we help the person to ho back and confront all those childhood traumas and release himself with those baggages he has been carrying.
Many fears and phobias shape up in early years of our life and this beautiful therapy helps us to let go off such issues.
My request to parents is to be more conscious of what they talk and how they react to their child and each other and to newly Wed couples please be sure of what you talk, how you interact with each other and what messages you transfer to your child.
‪#‎consciousparenting‬ ‪#‎innerchildtherapy‬ ‪#‎therapist‬ ‪#‎SaharGharachorloo‬‪#‎lifecoach‬
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Thursday 18 June 2015

Anger With God !!

Yesterday we had a class about "Anger with the Creator", though it was announced as a class I kept on calling it a session in my conversations.
Few people showed up, the ones who wanted the class and had asked for it did not turn up, anyway we started the class which actually turned to be more of healing sessions than a class.
As I was observing everyone I realised how fearful of God we are !!!
Till now I was under the impression that talking about "Sex" was a taboo in India... Guess what I was wrong, there are people who openly talk to me (as a therapist) about being a Sex addict, there are people who talk about extra marital affairs they have had, the child abuse they have been through realised, It's being angry with God which is a Taboo and not only in India but almost everywhere.
And it's not their fault, we have been made fearful of the creator, we have been told we have no right to be angry with the Almighty, we have been told people will judge us wrong and they will hate us, etc....
But the truth is at more than one time in our current life (and God knows how many times in our existence), we have been angry with him.
If you have these questions, or ever asked these questions, then you have been angry with him, " why me? Why did I have to have a life like this? What did I do wrong? What did I do to deserve this? Why did I choose this family, this body? It seems he has forgotten me & so on.....", then my dear you have been angry with the creator.
The only issue is we have been told we can't question him, we can't be angry with him and then what happens? Resentment happens, bitterness happens, a void within us happens.
The creator is ever knowing, ever magnificent, ever forgiving, the creator does not get angry, it does not harm you, if you are angry with the source, don't you think he/it already knows it?
He is ever forgiving, it is you with your guilt of being angry at yourself and the creator who can not forgive.
Start from today, come out of denial, recognise, accept and acknowledge wherever you have been angry with him, those are the times you have blamed yourself too and created the guilt of being angry with him too.
Release the anger by understanding you chose what you chose for a reason and for a learning, know the reason, embrace the learning and get rid of the guilt too, release it, that was the best you knew then, today you know more.
Forgive yourself, love your learnings and the situations n the people who helped you reach here and move on.
Move on to loving yourself as you deserve to be loved and the creator is just watching you, patiently waiting for you to walk back on your path, lovingly, happily and freely.

Being You !!!The Best of You ...



All that you need to do is to be the BEST of you. 

Most relationships go wrong because we try to be the best we think our partner would like us to be, we divorce ourselves in order to be in a relationship. 

Any relationship which doesn't give you the space and freedom to be who you truly are, any relationship that's based on pleasing each other, any relationship that's based on perfection and being perfect is bound to go wrong because partners are merely acting, they are putting so much energy and effort to be who they are not, hence they would be soon depleted of resources, would feel tired and exhausted. 
Acting requires effort, being does not, just being helps you blossom. 

Be who you are, be unique and choose a partner who accepts you as you are, and ensure in return you love and accept him/her as he/she is.

Today I love myself !!!

Sometimes I wonder if some people are for real?
I can say I have seen a lot of extremes in my life and it has been quite a bumpy journey, yet every turn brought new people and some old ones got down!!! 
What is most amusing is the ones who kicked, raved and ranted, those who hurt the most are the ones who taught most important lessons. 
Today I wish to pay Gratitude to all the people who did not play fair!!! Thank you for teaching me so much and helping me find ME. 
And today I want to thank myself for allowing myself to be melted in order to take a new shape.
Today I love myself!!!

Our Body Talks ....Listen carefully !!

As a therapist I have come to realise that most of the issues we believe is the problem whether Physical, Emotional or mental are not really the issue, they are the presenting problems, telling us that there is something deeper within us that we need to look into.
Our body is a beautiful mechanism that would tell us where we should look for the real cause of the problem.
The Head represents the decision making, people who either fear change or feel stuck and feel they can not create change would complain about headaches and issues with the head .
We carry the loads on the shoulder, people with too much responsibility or those who refuse to take responsibility would usually complain of shoulder pains.
People who have suppressed themselves or suppressed others from expressing themselves would have issues with throat n the glands in the throat area .
Issues related to courage, love, and enjoying n loving life are where the heart gives us signal about.
Legs indicate rigidity and not putting your best foot forward, people who have a problem to flight a situation or people who are escapist would complain of problems in the legs n knees .
The key is to know your body, pay attention and understand what is your body trying to convey to you.
Meditation and being in touch with your body can help you to remain healthy not only physically but also emotionally n mentally.
The difference between holistic healing and medicine is we treat the route cause, whereas medicine treats the symptoms.
Let's take help of our body to heal our Soul!!!

Power & Control ....



I am reading two books at the same time, both about power and control, one teaches you to use hard power and have control, the other one talks about soft power, the power you become when you surrender.
The first one talks about adrenaline rush, testosterone and wanting to have more, exercising power by the attitude of Kill before you are killed and of course the stress of remaining on the top at any cost, and the latter talks about serotonin and Endorphin release in a natural way of surrender and being happy and powerful, and being a powerful creator with total ease.
The first book makes me heavy and the latter makes me light and expansive.
If only we knew, we need to master ourselves to be the power to create a life we desire, if only we knew the fact that we want control is because we know and we have acknowledged deep inside that we do not have control over ourselves and our own life , if only we knew what we seek outside is what we are empty off within.....
Let's fill the void within, everything else would fall into place with total ease, joy and glory.
Let's choose a life we choose to live, a life that no one is a victim and no one a predator, a life that is fulfilling because we are filled within, because we are whole and complete.

finding the right partner ....

Couple of days ago a student of mine who practices Law of Attraction asked me, "how can I find the right partner and how can I meet the right person who would be loving and caring" ? 

I have been with her question for a while and all I could know was, truly there is no right and wrong person, everyone is beautiful and unique but we need to be with the one who would match our frequency, who would be loving and caring and expansive to our lives. And that's the answer, as per law of attraction " Like attracts like", if you wish to have a partner who would love you, you need to love yourself and believe you deserve to be loved and to be cared for. 

What you give out, comes back to you, deep inside if you are willing to love, to care and to be expansive to your partner, that's what you would attract. 
Happily ever after 💑

when in doubt ....Just Ask !!!

When confused just ask questions and stay silent, keep asking and the answers would show up, do not ask expecting an answer, just ask knowing the answer would come when it's meant to be!!! Just be silent in the mind, open in the heart and you shall know... 
When you ask questions without expecting an immediate answer is the time you are tuning into your higher self, the intelligence within that has all answers.... Just let the conscious mind rest. 
You can always ask what is it that I am missing?
What is it that I am not getting?
What is right about this that I am not willing to know?
How can this be changed?
Just keep asking till you know, try it, it happens effortlessly.

Let Go! Move forward ...

You are not a victim, you are not helpless, you are not dependant! 
You are special, capable and a uniquely powerful person, you can let go, you can move forward, you can change, you can create change.... 
If you do not like being where you are, just take the first step and move, believe you can be in a better place !!!

Sunday 18 January 2015

Our Body , Our most faithful companion ....Sahar Gharachorloo

Our Body is such a beautiful piece of Art , it never lies and can very precisely tell us what's wrong, where .
I have been having this weird pain in a very weird place for approximately 2 months now and like most healers /therapists I was continuously ignoring it till last evening when it became so uneasy that I no more could bear it so I decided to deal with it and honor my body which has been so patiently waiting for me to listen ...
I asked the pain and the body part what was bothering it and what was the message for me , what came back was so interesting , so beautiful that left me puzzled , amazed and made my life flash in front of my eyes like a movie on a fast forward mode . The body responded :" I am tired , I want to take it easy , why can't you relax ? Have compassion with me" , upon this response I checked the chakra associated with the pain and it was a minor chakra called illiac Fossa which represents torture n trauma ....
I realized that how rough and pushy i have been with myself and my body , how the pusher, the achiever and the pleaser in me has been continuously abusing my body and my being , my whole life flashed and i realized I never really rest . The interesting part is after I acknowledged this fact , communicated with the body and committed that I would always be in communion with it , as I am writing this I have absolutely no pain .
Let's love our body , let's be in communion with our body , let's be grateful to this wonderful advisor we have , let's listen to it ...Love n grattitude !!!

Law Of Attraction ...Simple Basics !! Sahar Gharachorloo

Some people ask me if law of attraction works then why doesn't it work all the time and why is it sometimes we want a certain thing but it does not happen no matter "how badly we want it".
Well first of all the sentence how badly I want it is not sounding positive at all ....Law of Attraction like any other universal law works at a certain frequency and of course a higher one , so if you want something very badly it is sounding as if you are operating from lack , when you operate from Lack , law of attraction will only create more lack .You require to desire everything from fulfillment , if you are grateful for what you have you will create more of what will make you more grateful .
Also realize Law of Attraction is a process of creating with awareness , the more you are aware of how you feel while thinking of creating what you desire to create , the faster you would create ! It's about constantly and continuously being aware of your thoughts and feelings and constantly changing the not so good feeling to feeling good and awesome about yourself , your Universe and what you have so far created ....

You are a Magnificent Creator ....Sahar Gharachorloo

We are such great creaters and such amazing planners , every minute detail of our existence is so well planned and designed by us , more interesting is that every single act we do , witness or believe that has happened to us is a part of our planning . We are here to enjoy this existence , this human experience , this beautiful planet called earth and once here we forget our very purpose of living fully and joyfully ...
The life we have created has a purpose and that's to be unique and enjoy this experience in all the uniqueness we have and eventually know that the only way here is way of Love ...
Pay attention my dear friend , you have so minutely planned this life to learn to love and the faster you learn the more joy you would experience , if anything bothers you , if anyone irritates you , if a situation frustrates you just ask what am i to learn here ? What's it in this person or situation that i am resisting and reacting to , what am I judging and concluding that is causing me so much discomfort ? Keep asking , keep wondering , don't conclude , don't judge and you would be amazed how much ease and awareness would follow .

Growing from within to a better place without ...Sahar Gharachorloo

The only way to gain and grow is by sharing , The only way to move forward is to drop the unnecessary weight , the only way to be strong is to know how vulnerable you are , the only way to change is to change your self ....Let's start creating a better place to live in, let's look within and change the world together !!

Self Love Comes once we embrace ourselves , Have fun with yourself....Sahar Gharachorloo

I embrace me ....So here it is :
I meditate ...
I burn candles ...
I drink green tea ...
I do Reiki and a lot more ...
I teach love...
I am aware ....
I know everything is an interesting point of view ...
But i still want to smack some people ...
Even though I know 98% of what I feel , think or emote is not mine ....
I still feel sad sometimes ...
I still don't like to see governments fool people ...
I cry ...I rave ...I argue ...
YET I LOVE ....
IT'S ME ...I EMBRACE ME !!

Money Attracting Tools ....Money is not the problem !!! We are ....Sahar Gharachorloo

I get so many people who contact me for courses , workshops or therapies but tell me they can not pay for it as they are in a bad financial state .
As an intuitive healer, a therapist & someone who works with energy one thing has become evident that "We Create all that is going on in our life ", so when money is the problem that only indicates one thing and that is " Money is not the Problem , WE ARE ".
It is our own limiting beliefs, our conditioning and  our relationship with money that is the problem . Everything including us and including money is energy . The food we eat , the water we drink the oxygen we breathe , all is energy , we never worry about how much oxygen is going to be available to us , we take it for granted that there would be enough so why is it that we worry so much about money ?
Take a pen and paper and note down what's your belief about money ? What's your relationship with money ? Where did these come from ?
You will realize what you know about money is what people around you have told you about it.
What if you could create a phenomenal life without worrying about Money with so much ease as if it was magic ?
What if you could make money love you and pour into your life in abundance ?
What if Money was yummy and receiving money was so much fun ?

Stay tuned for more on Money ...
We will update you on Our workshops and our free Gifts for you to unwrap your own gift with Money .